Paul William Gower

1957 - 2009
LocationColchester
Age51 years
Cause of DeathOrgan Failure
Date of Birth22/07/1957
Date of Death23/03/2009
Visitors631 since 13/07/2009
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This is my dad and ive created this site so people can leave messages for him! he was a fantastic man and i loved him to pieces and i idolized him and i miss him very much and wish every day that he was still here!! He was absolulty hilourios and always made everybody laugh! He loved his old banger cars and his moterbikes! He had 4 daughters Leoni, me kerri and kirsti, he was married to donna(my mum) for 20 years! and later married mel! He was always silly and playing jokes! and loved spending time with his grandchildren and being a grandad! He loved animals and always had pets! He was always getting into trouble but thats what every one loved about him as he always had a another funny story to tell! he was a lovable rogue!! He loved Man united football club i can still hear him shouting everytime they scored!! But sadley he loved his drink and thats what killed him! but he always said He`d "rather live for less and be happy and merry than live a long miserable life!"! I just wish that he hadn`t of gone so soon! and i could have spent more time with him! love you for ever and always daddy! gone but never forgotton!! xxx

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Still cant stop thinking about you! I had an allergic reaction the other week to hair dye and my whole face blew up if you had of seen me you would have found it hilourious! I can just imagine all the funny names you would have called me! i looked after mark for 2 week during the holidays and hes just like you poor lil sod! lol! I wish you were here to see me now at how iv changed my life around you would be so proud of me! You were anyways but u would now think the sun shines out of my arse! davey starts school tomorrow cant wait to see him in his lil uniform! Lala was a champ at sports day again this year she got picked to do mini olimpics agaist other schools and won at everything and got medals! i know how you loved lalas sports days! she still talks about you all the time she idolized you too. she misses staying at yours and stealing your mobilty scooter and crashing in the hedges lol! just a lil reminder to let you know your forever in my heart heead and blood!!! and never will be forgotton! and i miss you like crazy!!!!

Claire Gower-Cook (Daughter)

September 19, 2010

jus to say i love an miss you always wish you were still here. An wish u had met your grandson cos he jus like you in so many ways. love you alwys and forever x x x

Kerri Gower (Daughter)

September 5, 2009

happy birthday!!

miss u always! 1st birthday uve been gone!! lala said uve been abducted by aliens! lol! i know u wud find that funny as u told her u were an alien n she still believes that now!! love u have a good day where eva u r!! xxx

Claire Gower-Cook (Daughter)

July 22, 2009

For my Loved Ones

I stood by your bed last night;
I came to have a peep.
I could see that you were crying you found it hard to sleep.
I spoke to you softly as you brushed away a tear,
'It's me, I haven't left you, I'm well, I'm fine, I'm here.'
I was close to you at breakfast,
I watched you pour the tea,
You were thinking of the many times, your hands reached to me.
I was with you at the shops today; your arms were getting sore.
I longed to take your parcels, I wish I could do more.
I was with you at my grave today; you tend it with such care.
I want to re-assure you, that I'm not lying there.
I flew with you towards the house, as you fumbled for your key.
I gently landed on you; I smiled and said, 'it's me.'
You looked so very tired, and sank into a chair. I tried so hard to let you know, that I was there.
It's possible for me, to be so near you everyday.
To say to you with certainty, 'I never went away.'
You sat there very quietly, then smiled, I think you knew...
in the stillness of that evening, I was very close to you.
The day is over... I smile and watch you yawning and say 'good-night, God bless, I'll see you in the morning.'
And when the time is right for you to cross the brief divide,
I'll fly across to greet you and we'll stand, side by side.
I have so many things to show you,
there is so much for you to see.
Be patient, live your journey out...
then come home to be with me. (By Anon)

Donna Johnson Nee Parr

July 15, 2009

daddy i only wish i had of been able 2 see u more whilst u was still here wish id had of cum down mre often.an wish i cud off been there 4 u in ur last days. i will allways love u an think about u every day. an our family got split up wen i was 2 young 2 understand properly wat was going on i knw u loved us all but jus wish u cud of stopped with the drink lv u allways. kirsti

Kirsti Gower

July 14, 2009

goodnight paul, loved you always x

Donna Gower (Ex-Wife)

July 14, 2009

just 2 say i love u daddy! xxx

Claire Gower-Cook (Daughter)

July 13, 2009
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