Paul William Gower

1957 - 2009
LocationColchester
Age51 years
Cause of DeathOrgan Failure
Date of Birth22/07/1957
Date of Death23/03/2009
Visitors308 since 13/07/2009
Creator

This is my dad and ive created this site so people can leave messages for him! he was a fantastic
man and i loved him to pieces and i idolized him and i miss him very much and wish every day that he
was still here!! He was absolulty hilourios and always made everybody laugh! he had his hard times
but he absolulty loved my mum (donna gower) whom he was married to just over 20 years! he loved his
kids claire kerri and kirsti! and all his grand children!
he loved his cars and moterbikes exspecially old bangers!


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jus to say i love an miss you always wish you were still here. An wish u had met your grandson cos he jus like you in so many ways. love you alwys and forever x x x

Kerri Gower (Daughter) September 5, 2009

happy birthday!!

miss u always! 1st birthday uve been gone!! lala said uve been abducted by aliens! lol! i know u wud find that funny as u told her u were an alien n she still believes that now!! love u have a good day where eva u r!! xxx

Claire Gower-Cook (Daughter) July 22, 2009

For my Loved Ones

I stood by your bed last night;
I came to have a peep.
I could see that you were crying you found it hard to sleep.
I spoke to you softly as you brushed away a tear,
'It's me, I haven't left you, I'm well, I'm fine, I'm here.'
I was close to you at breakfast,
I watched you pour the tea,
You were thinking of the many times, your hands reached to me.
I was with you at the shops today; your arms were getting sore.
I longed to take your parcels, I wish I could do more.
I was with you at my grave today; you tend it with such care.
I want to re-assure you, that I'm not lying there.
I flew with you towards the house, as you fumbled for your key.
I gently landed on you; I smiled and said, 'it's me.'
You looked so very tired, and sank into a chair. I tried so hard to let you know, that I was there.
It's possible for me, to be so near you everyday.
To say to you with certainty, 'I never went away.'
You sat there very quietly, then smiled, I think you knew...
in the stillness of that evening, I was very close to you.
The day is over... I smile and watch you yawning and say 'good-night, God bless, I'll see you in the morning.'
And when the time is right for you to cross the brief divide,
I'll fly across to greet you and we'll stand, side by side.
I have so many things to show you,
there is so much for you to see.
Be patient, live your journey out...
then come home to be with me. (By Anon)

Donna Johnson Nee Parr July 15, 2009

daddy i only wish i had of been able 2 see u more whilst u was still here wish id had of cum down mre often.an wish i cud off been there 4 u in ur last days. i will allways love u an think about u every day. an our family got split up wen i was 2 young 2 understand properly wat was going on i knw u loved us all but jus wish u cud of stopped with the drink lv u allways. kirsti

Kirsti Gower July 14, 2009

oh daddy!! can`t beleive uve left me!! i love u so much and cant beleive u still left us wen mummy said she`d she`d take u back!! if u`d pull through u must have already gone cos` i know u wud have fight back 4 her!! i`m so sorry that i still get upset i just cant get over that ure not here n e more even if it 2 just moan at me!! n tell me right from wrong not that ure alway`s the right person 2 take advice from! lol! but u alway`s made me laugh n wen i went home i always had a story 2 tell out u!!!love u 4 eva r.i.p hope i done it right!!!xxxx

Claire Gower-Cook (Daughter) July 14, 2009

goodnight paul, loved you always x

Donna Gower (Ex-Wife) July 14, 2009

just 2 say i love u daddy! xxx

Claire Gower-Cook (Daughter) July 13, 2009
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From Claire